My boyfriend wont have anymore and when we do its not as good!?

what a ! no offence. If he still wants to have and then does it quickly, the least he can do is pleasure you, that has nothing to do with his drive, it should prove how much he cares for you, drive or not. what a douche! print off a sheet about the side effects of steroids, itll scare him. what do you mean you argue? what is his argument?